Sagittarius Season + Thanksgiving: Honor Your Truth

Sagittarius season is here, just as Thanksgiving week gets underway. Which means you might be feeling the tension between tradition and expansion. The pull to do things the way they’ve always been done and the desire to try something truer to who you are now.

Sagittarius is the sign of the seeker, the one who has to leave home to find their truth. And this week asks many of us to return… to tables we've outgrown, to scripts we're unlearning, to versions of gratitude that were never ours to begin with.

For the longest time, I was afraid to change because I thought it meant abandoning people or leaving people behind. I felt guilty for wanting something different. Like growth was a betrayal instead of what it actually is — a homecoming to myself.

But what I’ve learned is this: You are allowed to honor where you came from and still choose differently now. You can love your family and need boundaries. You can appreciate the meal and reject the narrative. You can be grateful for your journey without pretending the road was easy or that you'd choose the same path again.

Growth isn't betrayal. Evolution isn't disrespect. And building the life you actually want — the one that feels true, not just acceptable — is the most honest form of gratitude there is.

So this week, wherever you are… at your family's table, your chosen family's couch, or alone by choice or circumstance, I want you to know that I see you. I see the complexity you're holding. I see the patterns you're breaking. And I'm grateful you're here, doing this work, becoming who you actually are.

Keep reading for some self-care and reflection to nourish you nourish you through the week.

✦ Sagittarius Season: November 22 - December 21

Sagittarius energy is bold, honest, and unafraid to ask bigger questions. When you’re ready, journal about:

  • What do I actually want?

  • What feels aligned for the woman I am now?

  • Where am I ready to expand?

As a mutable fire sign, Sagittarius guides us toward what’s real. Not just what’s familiar.

✦ Affirmation of the Week

“I am allowed to outgrow what no longer fits. I honor the truth that’s rising in me.”

Lean into these words when you feel the pull of old expectations, outdated patterns, or the pressure to make the holiday “perfect.”
Let this affirmation bring you back to your truth — to the woman you’re becoming.

✦ Free Course: You Are Not Your Patterns

Over a dozen women have already completed You Are Not Your Patterns, and it’s been beautiful to witness their shifts. Not huge, dramatic changes — but small, steady ones that make life feel different from the inside out.

If you’ve been wanting to start, Sagittarius season is the perfect moment. It’s a season for self-honesty. For expansion. For choosing yourself in small, meaningful ways.

➤ Join free on the website: You Are Not Your Patterns

You’ll get 4 weeks of simple, doable reflections to shift you from autopilot → choice.

xo. Jessica

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